Secrets of an easy relationship between a man and a woman
Have you ever heard from men that they broke up with their girlfriend or wife because of the lack of ease in the relationship? In fact, these men are not being cunning. Lightness is really important and this article will help you understand why.
Remember how relationships are born. There are frequent meetings, SMS with gentle words, unexpected and pleasant gifts. There are those casual conversations about your favorite movies or the weather. Both partners enjoy each other and do not discuss current problems, the dollar exchange rate or the boorish boss.
Ease in a relationship is when a woman looks at her man with adoration, when she notices his virtues, when she takes care of herself and looks great. For men, this is ease. But where does it disappear with time? Why does a man begin to complain that the relationship has become difficult? Some women believe that this is the end of love. But this is a mistake!
In fact, a man loves a woman, as before, but he lacks her attention. He no longer wants to discuss utility bills, hear another scandal about scattered socks and his alleged irresponsibility. He misses this ease in the relationship. He wants to see a woman next to him who will inspire him again.
15 Secrets of an easy relationship
1. Talk less about problems in the bedroom!
The bedroom is a place to relax; in this room it is better to talk with a man about how gorgeous he is and how much you want him.
2. Don't rush your partner
When meeting a man from work, you should not start everyday conversations from the threshold. Give the man time. Half an hour will be enough for your significant other to come to his senses and stop playing the role of a tough businessman.
3. Be unpredictable
No need to start the scenes of jealousy, especially for no reason. Do not get a man asking why he did not call all day and why he does not write tender SMS. Try to act a little "weird" and when he notices this, then he will make every effort to return your attention.
4. Believe in your man. Praise your partner for any reason.
Did you change a light bulb? Well done! Has he hammered a nail into the wall? You are a real handyman! A man always waits for the approval of a woman, but it is important not to overdo it, after all, it is not a small child in front of you, but an adult and a completely accomplished person. It is important for a man to hear from you how you appreciate him, how strong he is and how able to cope with any difficulties.
5. Learn to listen and hear
If your partner tells you something, listen to him and do not interrupt. But you should not ask a man about anything when he is clearly not in the mood for a conversation.
6. Let your partner know you need him
The best moments for him are when you gently press against his shoulder, hug him timidly, kiss and sincerely rejoice that he is there. Tell him more often about how much you need him.
7. Focus on your partner's strengths
Every man has something special for which he should be respected. And for any man, words of respect mean a lot.
8. Don't give a lot of advice
You are not a mother to your man, you are his ally. Show female flexibility, do not command your partner and do not give him advice when he does not ask for it.
9. Give your partner freedom and become free yourself
Restriction of freedom is the most terrible punishment for any person. Relationships are not supposed to be a prison cell. Each partner must be treated with respect and understanding. If your man wants to be in a male company, give him such an opportunity. Taking a break from each other is also useful; this will allow both you and him to miss each other.
10. Surprise your man
You can invite a man to a cafe for no reason at all and order his favorite dish. Rest assured, he will appreciate such an act.
11. Create intrigue
Show your imagination and tell your significant other how you imagine the future together with him, where he is the main character. Just do not demand a response from your loved one.
12. Take care of yourself
To interest a man you need to be interesting to yourself. Do what you like - draw, sing, dance, meet friends. If a woman is passionate about something, a man will always be interested in her; this is a kind of alluring cosmos for him, which you want to constantly unravel.
13. Smile more often
When a woman smiles sincerely, a man has a feeling of calmness, that he is at home and everything is fine. If a happy woman is near him, he feels like he is a real hero!
14. Be generous with compliments
This is not trite at all, it is important for men to hear that their achievements are noticed and approved. Pay attention to details. If he put on a new shirt, say that it suits him very well.
15. Think before you speak
Remember that words materialize easily. Your thoughts are powerful energy. If you constantly complain about the weather, the government, neighbors and relatives, it will not lead to anything good. Think and speak positively and it will become your reality.
Try to put these tips into practice, and you will see how the relationship will begin to change for the better.
There are several effective ways, using which you will be able to improve relations with your beloved man.
